The Ferry Family

The lives and adventures of the Ferry Family: Boston Edition, Amanda, Christopher, and Mayhew. Mostly Mayhew. Let's face it, that's who you want to hear about anyway, isn't it?

Thursday, August 31, 2006

A random assortment of thoughts

Thought No. 1: Thanks to everyone for their kind words about the condo. We are very hopeful that this deal won't fall through. I'll have Christopher post more details later today or this weekend. (Being Christopher, he's already drawn out a scale blueprint of it on a pad of grid paper, with notations for size, etc.)

Thought No. 2: The farmer's market yesterday had cinnamon basil, so I made a big batch of genovese pesto. Then, because Christopher doesn't really like genovese pesto, made an artichoke and lemon pesto and we had fresh ravioli (from Dave's Fresh Pasta) and a big pile of some sweet ruffle-leafed lettuce called, according to the girl at the market, "Black-speckled... something."

I love August. I love genovese pesto. I feel certain I'm spelling that wrong, though.

Thought No. 3: Here's a picture of May with her godmother.

Nikki came over last Friday, which is why it rained that day. The humidity is why May's hair has that funky baby-'fro thing going on. Nikki, ever the attentive godmother, has found us a paint called "kinder paint" that has none of that bad stuff that makes that new-paint smell so toxic.

She found it on the super-cool baby stuff site: BabyGadget.net. You should all check it out. It's a blog, which means you're well off checking it every now and then. It check s out all the new baby stuff out there, ranging from the absurd to the sublime. And then there's the sublimely absurd.
And finally, thought No. 4: Saturdays are meant for naps.

What's more, Nikki found the baby blog site off of feministing.com, which is a really interesting blog about the absurd and sublime of being a woman.

Thought No. 4: Saturdays are for napping.

Tuesday, August 29, 2006

News with pictures

I know I've been skimpy on the photos lately so here are some courtesy (as ever) of Jen Hoberman. There's big Ferry family news at the end of the post, too.







Now that you've seen May, our news: CHristopher and I put an offer in on a condo and it has been accepted!It's about half a mile from where we live now, on Highland Ave. (Click here to see just how close). It's the second story of a 1920-ish building that's recently converted from apartments to condos. It has three bedrooms, a living room, and a newly renovated kitchen. We're planning to use one of the bedrooms as a library/dining room.

Of course, it's still up in the air. Many a slip twixt cup and lip and all that. But we're hoping to close on Halloween and be finished moving in by Thanksgiving.

Wish us luck!

Sunday, August 27, 2006

The Troll Story

Sunday morning and the whole family headed off for our semi-traditional breakfast at the Broken Yolk. After the obligatory stop at Starbucks in Davis, we were headed up College Ave. to the diner when we heard the familiar voice of Michael echoing off the houses.

Michael is also a fixture at the Broken Yolk and the adjacent Powderhouse Park. He is a large and loud man, and unfortunately both partially deaf and mentally retarded. Because of this, his is difficult to understand, persistant, at times belligerant, and frankly a bit frightening. The staff at the 'Yolk are very good with him, treating with Michael fairly but firmly, making sure other patrons have their personal space.

This morning was a bit different. Several blocks before the diner, Michael had (for lack of a better term) cornered a new dad and his 2-year old daughter on their morning walk. It probably started by Michael trying to bum a cigarette or just strike up a conversation, but clearly Dad was not able to handle the situation with the grace and skill of the waitresses at the 'Yolk (not surprisingly).

Michael does not understand personal space and kept trying to move closer to Dad. Dad held is daughter in his arms and kept the stroller between him and Michael. Everytime Dad said "No thank you" or "OK, I have to leave now" or some other attempt to disengage, Michael would come back at him again. Michael may have poor impulse control an social skills, but he is not stupid; he knows when he is being blown off, and was obviously frustrated and angry. Other pedestrians crossed the street away from the scene to they wouldn't get involved. This was clearly a bad situation that was not getting any better.

Christopher had May strapped to his chest, so he stayed on the far side of the street. Manda went ahead and crossed to Michael and Dad. Manda was able to interpose herself between Dad and Michael, allowing Dad and daughter enough space to cross the street and disengage from the situation. Manda was then able to tell Michael, politely, that he needed to go now.

Dad and daughter (Anika as we soon discovered) were a littel shaken, but Anika never did cry. Maybe years from now, she will write a story about how, when a troll blocks your way, the best tool is direct politeness.

Tuesday, August 22, 2006

Busy fall

This weekend, I sat down with my World Wildlife Fund day planner for the fall and our schedules look pretty full already!

We keep trying different calendars, but just to give everyone a general outline of our autumnal plans, here's what we're looking at:

Sept. 23: Cathy's 60th birthday party
Sept. 30: Hoberman's pie party
Sept. 31: The LeBlancs visit Boston
October 7: We'll be throwing a picnic! (Locals to Somerville will get inbitations soon.)
October 7-15: Christopher takes the week off and we relax
Oct. 28: Skip's 60th birthday party
Nov. 4 or 5: Cider day (Christopher and I traditionally go to the Berkshires for this)
Nov. 11 (weekend of): Steve may be visiting or we may be visiting Seth for his birthday
Nov. 23-26: Thanksgiving! We'll be on the road for much of this, I imagine, visiting relatives in Connecticut

Which brings us to December!

Sunday, August 20, 2006

Trees are our friends...

But they won't drive you to the airport.

Christopher and I have wanted to plant trees in May's honor. We talked about doing so for years before she was born -- on the assumption that we'd have a house when we had a baby. Since that's not the case, we're continuing to outsource our parenting and we're going to have friends and family plant the trees.

We ordered them today from ArborDay.org. Two pears for Skip, two apples for Barb (two for pollination, you understand), two crabapples for Cathy, two dogwoods for Jack and Grace, a hawthorn for Kevin, and, for Nikki, an oak, an ash, and a 'thorn. (An obscure botanical joke! The celtic equivlent of making a garden composed only of parsley, sage, rosemary, and thyme.)

We'd like Seth and Steve to have trees, too, but they don't have space right now.

Here's the thing, though. Arbor Day is very generous. We're getting way way way more trees than that. We're also getting two redbuds, two golden rain trees, two forsythias, and a red maple.

So, does anyone want a tree in honor of May? Uh, please? They will all be coming right around the time to be handed out at Thanksgiving.

Saturday, August 19, 2006

She's got the whole Cosmos...in her hands!





Or feet I suppose.

The cosmos ball is a gift from Mary Agner and May seems to be taking to it quite well.

Sometimes it seems like May is more interested in 'footling' and object than handling it, but hey, until she starts using her feet for locomotion, what else are they good for?


The answer, of course, is tickling.
Anything to see a happy baby.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Busy Thursday: Boring Thursday

Today is busy and fun for May and I, though boring to post about. In fact, the whole week has been that way. Tuesday we went and spent time with Jenna, who is studying for her comps. Yesterday, Aunt Nikki came and we went to our favorite bookstore and then had lunch in Central (quesedillas). After Nikki left, we got food from the Farmer's Markey -- melon and corn and a good baguette. Today, Mrs. Tittler and Peter came for lunch and a walk. We had Thai food and then went to PSBooks. And then Jen Hoberman (who used to be Jen Anderson) will come in the afternoon and then Mary may drop by this evening.

Christopher is going to spend the evening with his friends. It's WWII night at Jim's place.

Nothing else exciting. I'm reading Swordspoint by Ellen Kushner. May's new favorite book is "Doggies" by Sandra Boynton, a counting and barking book. She cracks up whenever her father barks.

Ohoo, I fibbed. Some actually big news. Small big news. Biggie news, even. My landlady's two chihuahuas -- Bella and Biggie -- had a puppy! Puppy chihuahuas are comically tiny. I will post a picture soon.

Sunday, August 13, 2006

"When they said, 'Sit down,' I stood up


May stood up yesterday.

It's not quite as dramatic as it sounds, but it was a small milestone. She was sitting on the Bobby and straightened her legs while holding onto my shoulders, thus standing up. (If she'd been sitting all the way down on the floor, I'd trumpet the achievement more loudly.) We, of course, didn't capture the moment on film. Or, uh, memory card. So here's a totally unrelated photo.

It's been lovely here in Boston for the past four days -- the first time in over a decade that my birthday wasn't a god-awful mess of weather. The three of us go for walks regularly.

We had brunch with David and Jen this morning -- we attempted to go to Full Moon but it wasn't open until 9 a.m., which is way way way too late for me. So, the Broken Yolk, as usual.

Since the past couple of weeks have been rather rough, I've been reading lots of children's books -- "comfort reading" the way mac-n-cheese is comfort food. I read several of the Little House books and was amazed at the fact that I remembered whole sentences word for word from back when I was in grade school. Apparently, they've added whole new books to the series though! Laura's daughter -- Rose-- has many books and there are books for Laura's mother, grandmother, and even great-grandmother. I haven't read any of these, but they are on the list of books I plan to buy soon.

(I've stumbled onto a controversy, too! Apparently some people believe that it was Rose and not Laura who wrote the books! Ooh, intrigue!)

Right this second, I'm re-reading Tamora Pierce. She is the ultimate in comfort books for me.

Friday, August 11, 2006

Amanda's birthday entry (the day after her birthday because blogger was down for maintainence)

This entry has nothing to do with May. There aren’t even any pictures.

But it’s my birthday and I want to talk about food.

It’s August and the Farmer’s Market is overflowing with an embarrassment of riches. August is gazpacho season here on Willow Ave., and I’ve just made my first batch of the season. Five kinds of tomatoes from the heirloom tables, sweet onions, two frighteningly large cucumbers, no peppers (Christopher hates ‘em), and a gracious plenty of garlic. Season with salt, pepper, more salt, more pepper, and oil and vinegar. And a little more salt and pepper. That volume of veggies requires a lot of seasoning.

I like to eat it with a hunk of bread. Sourdough. Or the good baguette from Hi Rise in Harvard. On a hot day, there are few things finer than an ice-cold bowl of gazpacho. The hardest part is right now, actually – waiting for the soup to get ice-cold in the fridge. Warm gazpacho is nothing more than salsa.

The berries and stone fruits are in. Berries annoy serious bakers. Serious bakers depend on art and science – a careful knowledge of chemistry and chocolate – to make drop-dead fabulous desserts. But any idiot can toss some sugar and some berries, put biscuit dough on top, and bake until bubbly. And it’s just as good as anything I spent six hours in the kitchen to make.

(My own vanity insists that I add that my biscuits are probably better than those of the average idiot, but who is eating the biscuits anyway? Besides, some sugared bread crumbs are almost as good.)

Soon there will be corn. Barely boiled and dripping butter and salt. I love corn. Better than boiled corn, though, is corn on the grill. Smoky and sweet – and dripping butter and salt.

August is wanton in New England kitchens.

But then comes Septemeber and it’s even better. Because not only do you have gazpacho and stone fruits and berries and corn – and watermelon, did I mention watermelons? – you’ve also got the start of the fall fruits.

Apples. I could write about apples all day. I could eat apples all day. When I was pregnant, I ate five a day. May is built almost entirely out of apples.

Apple cake. Apple pie. Apple brown betty. Apple crisp and apple crumble. Apple pancakes. Apple fritters. Apple muffins. Apple turnovers. Apple sauce. Baked apples wth cinnamon and butter. Fried apples. Poached apples. Apple tarts and tarte tatin. Abelskivers. Cider! Hard cider, sweet cider, fresh cider still clear from the press before it’s turned brown. Cider syrup and cider doughnuts and cider-boiled hot dogs. Sausages with apples in. Venison roasted with apples. Apples in a gruyere fondue. Apples and proscuitto on good sturdy bread with a little farm mustard and sharp Vermont cheddar.

There’s this thing I do on Sunday mornings where I make a batch of oatmeal from steel-cut oats and then while it’s cooking, I chop some apples into some cider and cook that down until it’s reduced by half. Pour the apples over the oats and add a splash of heavy cream and it’s the best thing on an October morning, when the sky is high and deep blue and air smells like fallen leaves and wood smoke.

It’s good in November, too, when the air is gray and the slush splashes up into your shoes. Perfect for Thanksgiving morning.

This morning, I was thinking about what to make for Christmas dinner. The menu, as it stands now, is simple. Butternut squash soup to start. Roast goose. Potatoes cooked in goose fat. Apple and sausage dressing. Roasted fall vegetables with sage and brown butter. Butter rolls. A wilted spinach salad with oranges.

Which is all fine and fabulous and makes me hungry to think about. But now, right now, I wish my gazpacho were cold.